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"Rent a Boyfriend" ad takes your booking fee and vanishes — you never meet anyone

Fake 'rent a boyfriend' ads on Instagram, Facebook, and Telegram use AI-generated or stolen photos to lure women. After collecting a booking fee (₹499–₹4,499), the scammer vanishes and blocks the victim. Personal data shared may enable future blackmail.

Also known as: rent a boyfriend scam, paid companionship fraud India, fake boyfriend for hire scam, discount dating scam

What to do right now

  1. 1 Do not send any payment in advance to someone you have never met — legitimate companionship or social agencies require in-person verification first
  2. 2 Reverse-image-search any profile photo before engaging — tools like Google Images or TinEye reveal stolen or AI-generated pictures in seconds
  3. 3 Do not share Aadhaar, PAN, phone number, or home address with an unverified online profile — this data can be used for targeted blackmail
  4. 4 If you have already paid, note the UPI ID, phone number, and screenshots of the conversation and file a complaint immediately
  5. 5 If the scammer has private photos or messages and is threatening to share them, contact the cyber cell immediately — do not pay any ransom
  6. 6 Report at https://cybercrime.gov.in or call 1930 (national cyber helpline).

Red flags

  • The profile photo looks too polished — reverse-image-search it; AI-generated or stolen photos come up on other sites
  • Packages are priced and listed on Telegram or social media (₹499 coffee, ₹1,249 movie, ₹4,499 full day) — no registered business details anywhere
  • They ask for a booking fee, security deposit, or advance payment via UPI or QR code before you have met them
  • No physical address, no phone number you can call independently, only a WhatsApp or Telegram handle
  • Urgency: 'slots are filling fast,' 'book now to confirm' — pressure to pay before thinking it through
  • After payment, the contact blocks you or stops responding

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