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PayPal or Venmo "sent you money by mistake" and asks for a refund

A stranger sends you money on Zelle, Venmo, Cash App, or PayPal — then messages you saying it was a mistake and asking you to send it back. The original transfer was funded by a stolen card or hacked account; sending it back from your own funds means you lose the money once the original is reversed.

Also known as: accidental payment scam, Zelle reversal scam, PayPal Friends and Family scam

What to do right now

  1. 1 Do not send the money back. Do not touch it
  2. 2 Contact the payment app's support directly through the official app — not by clicking links in any message you received
  3. 3 Let the payment platform handle the reversal of the original mistaken transfer. They have processes for this
  4. 4 If they pressure you with threats or sob stories, block them and screenshot the conversation
  5. 5 Report to the FTC at https://reportfraud.ftc.gov and the FBI's IC3 at https://www.ic3.gov.

Red flags

  • An unsolicited payment from a name you don't recognize
  • A frantic message ('please my husband is sick, I sent that money for surgery') asking you to send it back to a different account or phone number
  • Pressure to act fast before they 'lose access' or 'get in trouble'
  • The amount is round and just under a typical fraud threshold ($500-$1,500)

The mechanic of this scam relies on a key fact: payments funded by stolen sources eventually get reversed by the bank or card issuer. So if you receive $800 from a stranger and send it back, the original $800 disappears from your account a few days later — and you’re out the $800 you sent.

The right move is always: do nothing. Let the platform sort it out. If you receive a real accidental payment, the sender can dispute it through their app’s official channels and you don’t have to act at all.

If you have already sent money back: call your bank and the payment app’s fraud line immediately. Take screenshots of the messages. Reverting may not be possible but you should file the report regardless.

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